Social media has changed the way we communicate, perceive the world, and even how we view ourselves. While it brings people together and offers endless entertainment, it has also subtly reshaped our expectations of life. We often compare ourselves to carefully curated posts and forget what’s actually normal.
Here are some things social media has made us forget are completely normal:
1. Not Having an Opinion on Everything
In the online world, it feels like you must have a stance on every issue, from politics to pop culture scandals. But in reality, it’s okay not to have an opinion on everything. It’s normal to learn, observe, and even change your mind over time.
2. Looking ‘Bad’ Sometimes
Social media feeds are filled with perfect selfies, smooth skin, and flawless outfits. But in real life, no one looks that way 24/7. It’s normal to have acne, bad hair days, and outfits that don’t match.
3. Boredom
Before smartphones, people just sat quietly, stared out the window, or let their minds wander. Now, we feel the need to constantly scroll, consume content, or be productive. But boredom is normal—it sparks creativity and self-reflection.
4. Not Knowing Everything Instantly
We’re used to having Google at our fingertips, so not knowing something can feel frustrating. But it’s normal to forget facts, be unsure about something, or take time to learn things.
5. Enjoying Something Without Sharing It
Not every meal, sunset, or outing needs to be documented. It’s normal to enjoy a moment just for yourself without feeling the urge to post it online.
6. Silence in Conversations
In the digital world, conversations happen rapidly, and replies are expected immediately. But in real life, pauses and silence in conversations are natural. You don’t always have to fill the gaps.
7. Making Mistakes
Cancel culture makes mistakes seem like the end of the world. But it’s normal to mess up, apologize, and grow. Life is about learning, not about being perfect all the time.
8. Having a Small Circle
Social media glorifies having thousands of followers and hundreds of friends. But in reality, most people have a small, close-knit group, and that’s completely normal.
9. Not Being Happy All the Time
Life isn’t always exciting or glamorous. Feeling sad, frustrated, or lost is normal. You don’t have to pretend everything is perfect just because social media tells you to.
10. Aging
Filters and photo editing have made us hyper-aware of wrinkles, gray hairs, and other signs of aging. But getting older is natural and should be embraced, not feared.
Final Thoughts
Social media is fun and useful, but it’s important to step back and remember what real life actually looks like. It’s okay to be imperfect, to be quiet, and to just exist without feeling the need to share everything. Real life isn’t always aesthetic—but it’s real, and that’s what matters most.
What’s something you think social media made people forget is normal? Let’s talk in the comments!
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